I grew up in a family full of tradition, rich tradition that had been passed from generation to generation. Some of those traditions I still carry on with my own children, but there are some traditions that we have stumbled on all by ourselves. One of my favorite traditions happened by accident, and at the time, not even by ‘happy accident’! It all started on an important evening when I reeeeeeeally needed a babysitter…
When my husband married me 7 years ago he also gained what he affectionately refers to as his “Sparkle Girls”. There’s a whole ‘nuther story to go along with the name, and I will tell it sometime for sure, but the point is, he was pretty in love with all three of us on the day he and I got married. That husband of mine is a true gem, and without a doubt the man of my dreams! My husband’s Sparkle Girls were 6 and 7 on the day he became their Daddy. During our wedding ceremony, the four of us lit a common unity candle, symbolizing that we were all becoming one family. Since the day they met, both of the Sparkle Girls and Daddy have foreged their own unique and significant relationship with one another. It has been really beautiful to watch tenderness, respect, and love blossom between father and daughter over the last 7 years.
So, back on that important evening when the babysitter bailed and I longed to go out to a fancy, romantic, child free restaurant with my wonderful husband and celebrate our first anniversary, I was not very happy that our Sparkle Girls would be tagging along. I wanted it to be just the two of us, but instead a family tradition was born.
This year we celebrated our 7th anniversary, commemorating it as we have for every anniversary meal since that first one, out together, celebrating the anniversary of our family’s birth. Since that first anniversary we have added a son to our family and as we gathered around the steak house dining table, I delighted in the presence of my husband and our 3 children as we shared celebratory meal honoring not only our marriage, but the bond of family it represents as well. Not to worry, we have had and continue to have our time for celebrating our marriage all alone as a couple! This year we will celebrate by taking a trip to Italy and Switzerland this summer, all alone, but for now, this is one family tradition we cherish.
What are some of the family traditions that you share with your family? I would love to hear about them! Please come out of the internet shadows and share them in the comment section! Just click on the word “comment” below and follow the prompts. Thanks!